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How to Choose the Perfect Music Genres for Your Wedding: A Guide for Couples

Writer's picture: DJ James StephensDJ James Stephens

Updated: Jan 21

Your wedding day is one of the most memorable milestones of your life, and the music you choose plays a pivotal role in setting the tone for your celebration. Having DJ'd a wide range of weddings, I understand how crucial it is to create a soundtrack that feels uniquely yours as a couple. Whether you’re dreaming of a romantic, elegant atmosphere or a high-energy party, selecting the right music genres can truly set the mood.


When booking a DJ for your wedding, you’ll have the opportunity to share the music you love. Alternatively, if you prefer, you can simply provide a few genres you enjoy rather than a set list of songs. To help guide your choices, I’ve compiled a selection of songs categorized by genre. This should give you an idea of the types of tracks you might want to feature for your evening celebration.


70's



80's



90's



Afrobeats



Alternative



Bassline



Country



Dancehall



Drum & Bass



Dubstep



Grime



Hip Hop



House



Jungle



Metal



Motown



Pop Punk



Reggae



Reggaeton



RnB



Rock & Roll



Rock



Ska



Soul



Swing



Trance



UK Funky



UK Garage




Consider your personal preferences (and then your guests afterwards!)

Your wedding day is a reflection of you and your partner, so make it truly yours by considering the music genres you both love. Don’t be afraid to be a little selfish - this is your celebration, so choose the music that speaks to both of you. Whether you're into classic rock, upbeat pop, soulful R&B, or electronic beats, take some time to make a list of your favourite artists and songs. This will help you identify common themes that resonate with both of you, creating a soundtrack that’s personal and memorable.


If you and your partner have different tastes, consider creating separate playlists for different parts of the day, like a more laid-back genre for the ceremony and high-energy tracks for the reception.

While your wedding should absolutely reflect your personal style, it’s also a celebration for your family and friends. I always tell couples to prioritise what you love - after all, it’s your special day! The key is striking the right balance between music that you enjoy and tunes that will get your guests on the dance floor.


If you're unsure about what your guests will enjoy, you have a few options:

  • Option A: trust your DJ to read the crowd and adjust the music on the night.

  • Option B: ask your guests to submit song requests in advance, giving you a better idea of what they’ll love.

  • Option C: create a mix of songs you both love, along with some crowd-pleasers that you know will get everyone dancing. This way, you’ve got a personal touch while also keeping your guests in mind.


Trust Your DJ’s Expertise

A professional DJ offers more than just equipment - they bring valuable experience. By sharing your vision with your DJ, you’ll work together to curate a playlist that blends your personal preferences with crowd-pleasing tracks.


I’ve had the privilege of working with couples who wanted everything from timeless ballads to unique hits. I can offer suggestions, tailor playlists to your vibe, and even create custom mashups for special moments. For example, if you're wanting a mashup of songs for your First Dance, that is no problem at all!


Don’t Forget the Encore

The final song of the night is a powerful moment - it leaves a lasting impression. Choose a track and genre that capture the joy and energy of your wedding day. Whether you opt for a sentimental classic or a high-energy anthem, the encore is your chance to end the celebration on a memorable high note.


Why It Matters

The music at your wedding isn’t just background noise - it’s an essential part of creating lasting memories, evoking emotions, and uniting your guests. By thoughtfully selecting genres that reflect your style, fit your venue, and cater to your guests, you’ll set the stage for an unforgettable celebration.


Ready to Plan the Perfect Soundtrack?

I’d love to help you create a playlist as unique as your love story. Get in touch to discuss your wedding music plans and let’s make your day even more special!


Happy dancing,


DJ James Stephens

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